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What Project Managers Do

March 16, 2005 | Category: In My Life



So, first off let me say HAPPY BIRTHDAY LAURA!!!! You insanely beautiful and creative person, you! (How do you keep getting better all the time?)

Secondly, let me say: Thank you. I will respond to everyone who has commented. I try to do that anyway, but right now the love and support is overwhelming and healing and I can't begin to express my gratitude.

Thirdly, let me say: I had to edit my entry. I broke a promise and I feel bad. It was wrong of me to reveal what I did without the someone else's consent.

Forthly, and is that a word?: So I have plans in place now. I spoke to our bookkeeper and my boss and made about a bazillion calls. I will need a lawyer to help put some things down on paper, but otherwise it looks good.

Door #1: If it is St Louis, then I talked to the Admissions Director of an outstanding Montessori there and he's got a place in their summer program. I'm not saying that it would be the world's most fun summer, living in a Hotel. But we could make it QUITE the adventure and still find fireflies to catch and still drive home to Chicago on weekends.

DOOR #2: If it is the suburbs, then I will take Bear to work with me. There's a Montessori near (minutes!) away from the client site.

What happens after the summer is still a big dark blank, but then again - this is what Project Managers do. If there is anything I can do well then it is this - plan, manage, adjust, assess risk, balance the budget, and plan.

But just so we're clear, I would much rather be good at play-doh, treasure hunts, homemade cookies, flashcards, and lego's.

Meanwhile, I'll find out more tomorrow.


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Comments


In just briefly reading your blog, I understand that this situation isn't the best for you. BUT, living in St. Louis myself, I will vouch for the fact that it is a very kid friendly town and there is plenty to do with a preschooler (I have a 3 yr old and 1 yr old). If you have questions or need recommendations, I'd be happy to help, just send me an email.

Posted by: A.K. on March 17, 2005 02:08 PM


Another pair of fingers crossed for you and Bear!! May the Force be with you.

Posted by: azalea on March 17, 2005 01:43 PM


I know you have huge issues to work out and this isn't exactly the perfect situation for you and your family but... St. Louis is WONDERFUL. I lived their for 10 years. You absolutely must take Bear to the City Museum downtown. It's hard to describe (not a museum at all) -- a one-of-a-kind fun experience for both of you is guaranteed.

Posted by: Kelly on March 17, 2005 12:27 PM


Okay, I'm guessing and putting pieces together since you edited your post before I could read it, but from the comments I think I get the general idea.

I know how hard it must be for all this extreme change to be taking place, and the not knowing, but I'd like to point out to you, that you are still writing with hope and strength and love in your voice. You are embracing the changes and not hiding, not complaining, not cowering in a little ball. I'm proud of you, and I know that no matter what comes, you and Bear will not only be fine, but thrive and grow together.

Be happy that you are being trusted and valued at work, it sounds like taking this position in St. Louis will put the company in your indebtedness. Hold tight to Bear, and keep writing.

Thinking of you.

Posted by: Philip on March 17, 2005 08:21 AM


Came way of Helen's blog. I hope it works itself out in a way that is the least painful.

Good Luck.

Posted by: drew on March 17, 2005 08:07 AM


One thing that shines through is your love and commitment to Bear. When all is said and done, he's going to think back and say "my Mom did everything she could for me".

Work is demanding much time too, don't forget that you need to treat yourself once in a while as well.

Posted by: Ted on March 17, 2005 06:33 AM


Hang in there, I'm sure things will work themselves out. Sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better.

Posted by: Jean on March 17, 2005 02:02 AM


You're a great problem-solver, and I'm confident that you'll find a solution that works for your family. Door #1 actually sounds like a lot of fun to me!

Maybe I'm the Grinch that stole childhood, but honestly the play-doh, cookies, flashcards, and legos are only fun in (very) limited quantities. When you have to do it day in and day out for e t e r n i t y, it's really not that great. Especially if a large portion of your self-esteem is based on your career. Maybe it's different for you, but I just wanted to point out that the grass might not necessarily be greener on that side of the fence.

Good luck!

Posted by: notdonnareed on March 16, 2005 06:10 PM


Wow, Elizabeth, you are on one hell of a roller coaster. I have no words of wisdom or advice, but if it helps to know a random stranger is crossing her fingers for you, well, I am...

Posted by: nic on March 16, 2005 05:55 PM


You know I'm pulling for you. And one thing about St. Louis is that it might give you and CD a little distance and sometimes distance can help clarify things. I'm glad the temp. apt. thing would work and I bet you all would have a great time in St. Louis.

Posted by: RP on March 16, 2005 05:07 PM